With all due respect to our readers, I’m throwing my “Political Correctness” out the window!
I decided to write a response, and spout out of my own, to address the blog that was written by my husband earlier this date. Shortly after Tristan’s blog post about the “blogger.com transman hater dirtywhiteboi67”, I began to research this blogger myself…especially, after I was approached by several people who feared her retaliation after reporting her blog that is in direct violation of the website’s regulations. I realized that she has people in fear of her and over what she might do. I can only say that fear feeds her behavior but should not control yours. “Dirt”, as she calls herself, is not only an obvious man hater in every sense of the word, but she has embraced her claim to women: (“I am woman hear me roar”) so much so that she takes even more offense to a “woman that wants to be a man.”
I sat down and watched several of “Dirt’s” youtube videos only to find that she is a very lost soul with some very deep rooted wounds that fuel her hate for men. My observations based on her facial expressions, micro expressions and visible body language in her videos is that this goes well beyond her “butch pride” and into wounds that you and I can only feel through her words and posts.
As much as I choose to believe her “ignorance” and “redneck” attitude play into her overly vocal hatred toward the transgender community, I truly see that this is about her hatred for men in general.
This post is not to address her outlandish, assinine statements; instead, it is intended to address the feelings or questions her readers may have. I know that she lives in a glass house and as much as she throws stones she, herself, cannot handle the same ridicule (hence why negative or opposing comments are not allowed or are erased from any of her posts).
“Dirt” is only as powerful as “we” make her…meaning, if you fear reporting her or if you fear addressing her hateful attacks on our community…then I don’t want to hear you bitch about it. Our community and the communities before us did not get anywhere or break new ground on our rights by tucking tails in between our legs and running.
Make your presence know. Take a stand. Eliminate what keeps us oppressed. If you fear people like this then ultimately they win.
For you “Dirt” (whatever):
You are a white mid-forties ugly ass butch dyke man hater who is probably bipolar with borderline personality disorder that was sexually assaulted/abused as a child/adolescence. I assume the blogging and vlogging that you “think” is your outlet probably needs to be replaced by intense therapy and heavy medication.
…I’m just sayin’.