One of the WORST things about a strap-on is…the STRAPS.
Nothing makes it feel more unreal. Like a distant cousin’s brother’s aunt’s friend.
It does NOT feel like a part of yourself when you have to tighten straps around your waist and sometimes your thighs!
To top it off, it pretty much ends up being a chastity belt for yourself…with little to zero stimulation, having to leave it all to the imagination and whatever motion you have in your ocean.
A harness, you say? Yeah, I love wearing a BIG gi-normous BELT when trying to feel sexy…
Let me tell you about something else. Something BETTER. Something that just might blow your mind and make your partner swoon!
Babeland Toys has a product that is a must-have, if you can handle it! The Tantus Realdoe is STRAPLESS! Once in place, it truly becomes one with you so you can pleasure your partner and yourself all at the same time.
This product made my girl’s jaw drop! It’s revolutionary!
You can choose to have vibration for extra stimulation or you can make your own vibration! 
Basically, it’s simple. You simply place the smaller “knob” like end inside of you and VOILA! it stays in place. It takes a minute or two to adjust to the feeling of, “Uh-oh! It’s gonna fall out!” to realize…it WON’T. The Realdoe stays secure and snug and allows you to truly feel this isn’t some stranger attached to you, but just a wonderful extension of yourself. It even has a few ridges for extra stimulation…now, weren’t they being smart when making this rockin’ thing?!?
I know some guys might not like having to put anything inside, but if you can move past that, I’m telling you what! This thing rocks my world and my girls!
Looking down and seeing it…you truly feel it is you! You could never feel the same looking down at a harness or straps. The Realdoe takes the cake and the icing, too!
Highly recommended! This is a product that already took too long to arrive so get yours today!!! You will NOT be disappointed…and neither will your partner!
Babeland's Tantus Realdoe
I bought the very similar Feeldoe a while back, with much excitement and anticipation to try the “strapless strap-on” feeling – Only to be massively dissapointed with the result. The problem I found was that the whole things moved around too much, it was impossible to get any kind of real force behind it and therefore there was very limited control of movement. A big part of this was the thinness, and therefore floppyness, of the part just undernieth the bulb that goes into the person wearing it.
The only time I’ve managed to have any sucsess with it was when I wore it in my harness, which kind of defies the point.
First and foremost, I am so happy to have come across your blog during my search! And wouldn’t you know it, your entry here just caught my eye… totally.
However, I do have reservations about it not falling off. What if it is “rough” interaction? Or is it best when the intimate encounter is slow and easy?
Your input would be greatly appreciated.
My regards.
In my opinion, the Realdoe/Feeldoe is not the end all be all of the cock world. I have found that there are a limited number of folks that it works for. I had the pleasure of owning one for a while and will admit the concept is wonderful, however the reality of the situation is that it just doesn’t hold up to remotely active sex. I like to fuck and this cock didn’t fit the bill.
I find that I have no problem feeling like my cock is mine when I strap up or when I pack without a harness. For me, and many others, it is about the mental connection we make with our cocks. Harnesses are sexy for some people…me included!
I am glad the Realdoe works for you, but there is no need to knock everything else out there because you found what works for you. I statements are sexy!
I have used the feeldoe classic (not the realdoe – dont know how they might differ) and mostly use it to penetrate people anally. I have never used it with a harness. In my understanding this works best if you have strong internal muscles where ever you are inserting the bulb end. This helps to hold and control it.
Slow and easy has worked best in my experience though sometimes I go hard and rough while using it. This for me takes more secondary supporting actions to make sure the session goes the way I want it to. When moving more quickly or “roughly” I tend to close my legs and or clench my internal muscles a little tighter. I also sometimes reach behind myself and use my fingers to push on the feeldoe (between where it comes out of me and goes into my partner there is a wall there that I put pressure against) to stabilize the feeldoe while Im penetrating my partner.
I have had it slip out a few times but generally this has not been a problem.
I do feel that the piece is floppy (but much less so than the Share), but I honestly I have not found it to be much of an issue for myself. Maybe with types of penetration other than anal the floppiness is more difficult to work around? I dont know why this might be except for the tightness and particular kind of elasticity that anal provides or maybe because the positioning is different and makes it more conducive to anal than other types of penetration. I have had it sucked by people and this worked fine. There was not a lot of flopping around but that can make sense for that kind of sex. Again I dont have experience fucking others outside of anal and I have not been fucked by this except experimentally being double penetrated by it (my partner inserted it into their butt and fucked me with it) this worked only kind of.
I do like the casualness of being able to don and shed the feeldoe when I want without the (however minimal) time of strapping on.